I wasn't long before the pain of the separation caused me to give into the beautiful smile of a waitress in a local restaurant. I would be becomming sinlge again in about 7 years. You got it, I was on the rebound being driven by the male sex drive and total stupidity. Just because they were serving the best chicken wings in south Florida , this was not what caused me to continually come back for the TNT wings. It was the hot blond single woman with the charming personality and the irresistible smile. Did I mention that she was amazingly beautiful at first glance, weak in the knees. This woman in her early thirties, 5' 3”, 36D, having blond hair ( I later discovered that she was a natural redhead) had captured my attention. I knew it was to early to get involved with someone. So, I purposely did not visit the restaurant for a while. I mean it had only been a couple of moths since I had been single again. She later told me that she fell in love with me at first sight.
Single Again
Remembering back to the day when I became single again that was the day I made my biggest mistake in my thirties. It was when I had separated from the person that I had been with for over thirteen years. We had been high school sweethearts. But as time and age would have it, there was a change of season for both of us. This new season was being single for the first time in many years. What in the world was I going to do with my time now? Depression and confusion seemed to go hand in hand for the first two months after the separation. Something inside hurt so bad as I was loosing everything I had dedicated my life to since graduating high school. The pain would soon be overcome by an attractive smile from an irresistible woman.
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I was totally shocked as we finished the evening around 12:30 that she invited me to come over to her place. Becomming sinlge again after a long relationship was feeling pretty darn good right now. I was about to score but my morals wouldn't let me. I said “no” and my friend egged me on to go with her. All I could think of was if I did that this would be like a one night stand. I was so totally frightened because I had never played the dating game before. The thirteen year relationship that had ended was my first real love. I stuck to my guns even though my buddy had had way to much beer and was becoming obnoxious in his cheering me to go. As we were ready to leave, she invited me to come over to her place and hang out by the pool the next day. I got her phone number and called her the following day. We met and within a few days we were going full blast forward. I would not have to be concerned about dating again for another 7 years.
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Becomming Single Again
Two months passed and I decided to go out with a buddy of mine one Friday night. I had told him about this woman who had made my heart go pitter patter so of coarse he wanted to meet her. Luckily, she was working and noticed me (or I mean us) as we walked in to the door. We were planning on going out to play pool after we ate and in our conversation with her during dinner I found out that she would be getting off around 10pm. So, I asked her to join us down the street. Actually it was just down the side walk at a small shopping center bar called “Nick Billiards Bar.” This was so weird being single again and having my heart pound out of my chest as I waited for her response. She said yes and met us there.
Becomming single again after a long relationship
Becomming single again after a long relationship
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